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Seduction Bible

Casanova Mindset

# Responsible for your life and your circumstances

  • Manage your emotions, shift your perspective, and accept responsibility
  • If you don't take control of your life, it's impossible to get what you want
  • your results will be random
  • lead your life in the direction you want
  • always control how you interpret what happends to you
  • how you respond to what happens to you

# I am enough. I don't need the approval of anyone else to feel complete

  • analyze your true motivations and desires
  • Be honest with yourself
  • What excites you more?
  • focus more on your values
  • happy
  • what makes you happy and what's worth doing
  • business
  • freedom
  • creativy
  • families/friends
  • when you focus on getting approval, you live up to other people's values

# I have a mission and purpose outside of women

  • What makes you feel most alive and invigorated
  • what was a moment when I felt extremely energized and excited?
  • how you can start doing more of the things that make you come alive
  • pursuing these passions, you'll give yourself the best chance to create a life

you're truly proud of

  • They know where they're going in a world
  • They are striving for sth
  • assume attraction from all women until proven otherwise
  • you must take the first approach
  • if she says no, then stop

# find you can do what you were afraid you couldn't do

  • Take the first step, Stop waiting for the right moment
  • what do u like about her?
  • focus on what you find attractive about her,

you'll be more in tune with your natural male instincts.

# Great First Impression

  • slow down your speech
  • slow down your movements
  • The sexy smile
  • show very little teeth
  • smile with one side of your mouth more than the other
  • develop strong posture
  • practice walking with your head high, shoulders back, and your body straight
  • yoga
  • Strong eye contact
  • look at her right eye
  • Speak from your belly
  • your voice will likely be deeper and more masculine

# Conversation

  • "what are u up to? "
"I'm meeting a friend in a little while"
"I know this is random and we literally just met, but
you have a really fun/interesting vibe. We should grab a drink this week or next"
"I gotta go, but you seem like a lot of fun.
we should grab a drink this week or next. "
  • some open-ended questions
"what brings you to X city?"
then listen and relate back with your own experiences;
  • compliment her in genuine and unique way
  • "you have very unique style. I might need to get some fashion tips from u"
  • playfully tease her

# flirting

  • Don't be overly direct or friendly flirting
  • communicate with sexual intent
  • the way you say it and the intent behind it
  • Hold strong eye contact
  • talk slower
  • smile
  • using the implication
"I love lingerie"
"Really? Well I know it may sound crazy, but I love women who love lingerie."
  • agree and exaggeration
"I'm sure you say that to each girl ..."
"You're right. Usually they don't catch on though. I must be off my game today."
"I'm too old for you ..."
"I know. I'm just a boy trying to find his place in this big world.
I'm no match for a sexy, mature girl like yourself."
  • Positioning yourself as the prize
'I love bikinis'
'don't try to make me think of you in a bikini"
' are u trying to seduce me?'
' only if you promsie not to try antying'

# teasing

  • 自嘲幽默
  • exaggerate her accent or mimic the particular word

# Connect - Get Her Talking

TODO

reference

  • [How to Effortlessly Start Conversations and Flirt Like a Pro]
  • [THE SEDUCTION BIBLE](https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/23616869-the-seduction-bible)