Socratic Mirror
Self-Wiki
Seduction Bible
Casanova Mindset
# Responsible for your life and your circumstances
- Manage your emotions, shift your perspective, and accept responsibility
- If you don't take control of your life, it's impossible to get what you want
- your results will be random
- lead your life in the direction you want
- always control how you interpret what happends to you
- how you respond to what happens to you
# I am enough. I don't need the approval of anyone else to feel complete
- analyze your true motivations and desires
- Be honest with yourself
- What excites you more?
- focus more on your values
- happy
- what makes you happy and what's worth doing
- business
- freedom
- creativy
- families/friends
- when you focus on getting approval, you live up to other people's values
# I have a mission and purpose outside of women
- What makes you feel most alive and invigorated
- what was a moment when I felt extremely energized and excited?
- how you can start doing more of the things that make you come alive
- pursuing these passions, you'll give yourself the best chance to create a life
you're truly proud of
- They know where they're going in a world
- They are striving for sth
- assume attraction from all women until proven otherwise
- you must take the first approach
- if she says no, then stop
# find you can do what you were afraid you couldn't do
- Take the first step, Stop waiting for the right moment
- what do u like about her?
- focus on what you find attractive about her,
you'll be more in tune with your natural male instincts.
# Great First Impression
- slow down your speech
- slow down your movements
- The sexy smile
- show very little teeth
- smile with one side of your mouth more than the other
- develop strong posture
- practice walking with your head high, shoulders back, and your body straight
- yoga
- Strong eye contact
- look at her right eye
- Speak from your belly
- your voice will likely be deeper and more masculine
# Conversation
- "what are u up to? "
"I'm meeting a friend in a little while"
"I know this is random and we literally just met, but
you have a really fun/interesting vibe. We should grab a drink this week or next"
"I gotta go, but you seem like a lot of fun.
we should grab a drink this week or next. "
- some open-ended questions
"what brings you to X city?"
then listen and relate back with your own experiences;
- compliment her in genuine and unique way
- "you have very unique style. I might need to get some fashion tips from u"
- playfully tease her
# flirting
- Don't be overly direct or friendly flirting
- communicate with sexual intent
- the way you say it and the intent behind it
- Hold strong eye contact
- talk slower
- smile
- using the implication
"I love lingerie"
"Really? Well I know it may sound crazy, but I love women who love lingerie."
- agree and exaggeration
"I'm sure you say that to each girl ..."
"You're right. Usually they don't catch on though. I must be off my game today."
"I'm too old for you ..."
"I know. I'm just a boy trying to find his place in this big world.
I'm no match for a sexy, mature girl like yourself."
- Positioning yourself as the prize
'I love bikinis'
'don't try to make me think of you in a bikini"
' are u trying to seduce me?'
' only if you promsie not to try antying'
# teasing
- 自嘲幽默
- exaggerate her accent or mimic the particular word
# Connect - Get Her Talking
TODO
reference
- [How to Effortlessly Start Conversations and Flirt Like a Pro]
- [THE SEDUCTION BIBLE](https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/23616869-the-seduction-bible)