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!Being a Business MAN

Character - a value-driven professional

  • add value to customers and the people we work with
  • See Yourself as an economic investment on the open market
  • give people a great return on their investment
  • see youself as a hero on a mission, not a victim
  • A hero rises up and succeeds against all challenges and oppressors
  • Learn and get better, keep fighting
  • Those who journey the farthest will arrive with the most strength.
  • remain calm and de-escalate drama
  • react a little under the level of drama a situation deserves
  • accept feedback from you trust
  • Choose people who have your best interests at heart
  • Shedule meetigns in a repeating routine
  • establish a routine set of questions
  • have U seen me act unprofessionally?
  • Have U noticed that I've been missing sth?
  • What am I doing that I can improve upon?
  • know the right way to engage in conflict
  • conflict is not wrong; it's the by-product of progress
  • try to remain calm and reasonalbe as you engage in conflict
  • make statements that affirm and respect, even as you confront
  • make the goal to move in a positive direction by collaborating with whomever you are talking

with about benefiting them and their career

  • want to be trusted and respected more than liked
  • Clear expectations
  • focuses on the big picture, what's the goal of the team as a whole?
  • Let them know and keep them accountability in a daily stand-up meeting
  • Rewards for good performance
  • once you explain the big picture and set clear individual expectations,

affirm the team is doing a good job, and challenge and support them to close performance gaps

  • they take action to make those ideas happen
  • make real things happen in the real world.

they do not let their best life get stuck in their imaginations

  • they live in clarity
  • we just don't wanna do the thing we need to do,

and so we choose confusion to avoid responsibility

  • consufion is often our desire to avoid conflict and our unwillingness to take action
  • If I were a different person, looking at my life from the outside, what would be the obvious right action to take?
  • people pleasing, losing face, or fear if I do the right thing
  • growth mindset and optimism

The Entrepreneurial Mindset

  • Entrepreneurial mind
  • seeing the world as a set of opportunities, not obstacles
  • seeing problems to be solved, not barriers that limit
  • being driven to create value for a broad set of stakeholders

and lifting the human condition

how a business really works like an airplane

  • the body: overhead - the cost of doing business that is not related to product, marketing, or sales
  • monitor the creeping expense of overhead
  • question whether money is spent in the direct effort to make more money
  • have to be lean, light, and efficient everywhere
  • salaries, medical, rent, office supplies
  • keep overhead as light as possible
  • the wings: products and services
  • everything you sell
  • sell the products that are profitable and in demand
  • the engine: Marketing
  • a marketing budget
  • a sales team
  • Fuel: Capital and cash flow
  • enough cash to operate your business
  • accessible money in the bank is fuel in a business
  • ask ourselves how this decision will affect cash flow in every decision
  • Keep the business flying
  • resistant to adding costs to overhead
  • reports that reveal whether marketing and sales efforts are performing effectively
  • profit margins are high enough
  • increasing the efficiencyof production, sales, and marketing

communication

negotiation - Trust a proven process

  • Always know whether you are in a competitive or collaborative negotiation
  • Know what kind of negotiation mode the person you are negotiating with is in
  • A competitive negotiator will not stop until they are sure you have lost
  • they aren't interested in understanding what I wanted, only in getting what they wanted
  • creating a false bottom to the negotiation
  • make sure to let them know you won't be able to go any further and that's when they will feel as though they have won
  • I let them know this was a lot of money and I would have to make a significant sacrifice to make it happen
  • find out if there is anything you can offer your counterpart as a way of making the deal more satisfying and bringing it to a close
  • understand that a negotiation is about more than just numbers;

it's about bringing somebody satisfaction at the end of the deal

  • list "other benefits"
  • ask yourself what other factors could be in play
  • make the opening offer on the table for the rest of the conversation
  • having information that adjusts the gravity of the negotiation
  • Diversify your interest in an opportunity before you start negotiating to avoid being emotionally hooked
  • split your interest, you gain leveraging power and also realize a scarcity mindset could cost you

Successful Negotiation

  • TODO
  • reference
  • [Successful Negotiation](https://www.coursera.org/learn/negotiation-skills/home/info)

reference

  • [Business Made Simple]
  • [HBR Guide to Negotiating](https://book.douban.com/subject/27161116/)
  • [Negotiation strategies](https://hbr.org/topic/subject/negotiation-strategies)
  • [Improving Communication Skills](https://www.coursera.org/learn/wharton-communication-skills/home/week/1)
  • [Success](https://www.coursera.org/learn/wharton-success/home/info)