Weekly Review

2021-05-23 - 2021-05-31

• self
• 勇气 - 对所有事情都敢于面对

• practice more, do more

• No judge (like or dislike), just different experiences

• build the connection with Ivy
• Do u really wanna a family now?

+ Yes

• which kind of life do u like ?

+ happy, sweet, supportive

+ confident, firmly

• Can u take the responsibility?

+ I try my best

• Do u really like her?

+ she's sweet

+ she mataches with my ideal one: western background, kind, not arrogant

• How do u improve yourself

+ have your purposes

+ 对自己有要求, 工作认真

+ 勇气 -> 对所有事情都敢于去面对

+ 让对方觉得 很在乎她

• 让大家觉得 公平， 而不是平等

-> 老是这么想的人“为什么自己没有“

• why

-> 而不是想， “自己如何才能那样”

• HOW

• 自己在 大伙面前 害羞

+ 花心思去注意和观察， 在你想改变你与他们的关系的时候

• 当你想要对方做某事的时候， 认真的告诉对方，这做样好棒
• “xxx， I thought You did great”
• 当他们做了有助于社会或个人的行为时候

• how do u pursuit her?

+ afaid that I cannot match with her

+ don't know HOW

• check your negative self-talk, overthinking?
• this makes you unhappy
• protect your mental health firstly
• avoid the toxic persons - cause u harm and unhappiness

+ unsecurity

+ unhappy

+ 心怀怨恨的人

• take more actions when you are overthinking

• focus on the research in your working time

• do programming