Daily Review 2021

记录下每天的工作和生活 - 2021

• analyze how I spent my time
• review my priorities and my strengths
• transfer to-do-list to what-do-list
• TODO

2021-05-11

• SELF Management
• know your strengths <- feedback analysis

+ study at schools

• book studies, less practical intelligence
• good independent thinking, and don't care the compare: math, physics, history
• not a good team member

+ work as an engineer

• like learning, always try to improve myself
• don't like to modify the work from the others
• don't like the rule in big chinese company
• 反叛，正直，kind, 朴实，欣赏才华，不贪钱
• 平视
• less practical intelligence
• friends ?

+ work as a RA in the universities

• a kind & good mentor is so important
• take your responsibilities

+ what you cannot do ?

• know how do u work

+ reader not a listening

• how do u learn

+ reading/writing -> practice

+ chat from others

• how do u work with others?

+ work independently, and communicate with each others

+ or work in a team?

• Do u like make decisions or a mentor?

+ can u take the burden and pressures or have a mentor to make u think more?

• Do u work best in a fast-changing env or a preditable one?

+ a preditable one actually?

• I like a plan one

• issues
• annoyed by the negative emotions from the previous colleges

+ don't give more to earn the respect

+ don't know how to protect self

+ didn't know to build good vibes

• lessons - practical intelligence

+ most people donot care the facts, but how to say it

+ knowing what to say to whom

+ knowing when to say it

+ knowing how to say it max effect

• show up often

+ being in the right place at the right time is also crucial

+ your env and the people surrounding you present most of the opportunities

+ attend as many conferences & seminars as I can

• your goals

+ narrow down and define your goals

+ who you wanna be and what you wanna do

+ stick to your vision and immerse yourself in the env to generate most opportunities

2021-05-10

• improve your focuses and efficience
• more goals, and less on news

• I find that I miss Ivy
• She is so connected with me

• TOIMPROVE
• improve your body, mindset, mental, finance each day

+ stop negative self-talks

• learn the persuasion skills
• work hard towards your goals

2021-05-07

• find your passions or goals
• build a business/startup
• learn new knowledge

2021-05-06

• try hard in life

• TOIMPROVE
• learn the new knowledge
• turn knowledge / idea into business

+ feedback + iteration

+ learn from others

2021-04-27

• TODO
• improve your energy
• do more exercises

2021-04-21

• tips
• follow the people who you need, lead the people who need u

+ if you need him/her, follow him/her

+ be wise enough to follow

+ be smart enough to lead

• you can learn through the mind and the observation

• think clearly and know what you want is kind of success

2021-04-12 - 2021-04-18

• training in the insurance industry
• don't feel so good actually
• I am surround with some-not-mature and unreal persons
• I cannot make much money actually

• GOOD
• buy a suit, which is a good experience
• don't need to care other's emotions actually

• a bit freedom, responsibilities
• THINK again

2021-04-08

• read ch2/3 <the little schemer>

• read <Mastery>

• read <Rework>

• practice languages

• review
• dont do these, becase of no energy

2021-04-07

• reflect yourself based on 'I love you but'
• your dream
• your personality
• your pleasure
• your feeling
• daily route
• your dream
• CHECK: finish the part

• check your relationship belief
• your upbringing, culture or media ?
• how much the sayings has marked your personality or view of the world
• TODO

• read ch2/3 <the little schemer>
• finish a bit

• attend the meetup
• so glad to chat with new people

• write your feelings
• I feel happy to chat with new people, different views

2021-04-06

• finish the draft part "I love you but"
• finish the draft one

• practice your language
• watch two episodes "friends"

• self
• I feel fulfilling when I finished my daily plan today
• I feel happy when I watch friends shows.

+ Monica is so angry because her boyfriend chandler argues with her about the

babies and familes issues; chandler doesn't know how to fix the issues, and thus

he proposes to her, and she forgives this unreasonable actions.

• events
• Google win in 10-year oracle court battle, this is a copywright win in IT industry
• TOCHECK MORE

2021-04-05

• finish the book "I love you but"
• write a review
• finish what I cared and finish ch1

• language improvement
• a bit

• modify the markdown in blog
• a bit hard, check more

• GOOD
• get up around 9:30am
• fowo at dinner is wonderful
• build the connections is more important for you

2021-04-04

• GOOD
• wonderful to play badminton
• emotion/feeling is so powerful
• relationship is also important

• TOIMPROVE
• should get up around 8:00am
• focus a bit actually

2021-04-03

• TODO
• scheme programming

+ read ch2 and ch3 the <the little schemer>

• about love

+ read ch4 <I love you but>

• practice my language: Enligh and Catnonese

• apply for the driver test

2021-04-02

• get up around 9:30am

• see a movie <soul>
• "how to have your life?"
• enjoy your every moment

• watch <friends> shows

• TOIMPROVE
• find that it's a bit hard for you to like to argue with others

• DONE
• finish my chengdu ID card

• FUN
• wonderful to see there are two flowers blooming here

2021-03-31

• programming
• make the scheme can run on vscode

+ good

• read ch1 of <the little schemer>

• language
• watch 2 episodes of <friends>

• DONE
• repay the money to zhuzhixia

+ don't like her words

• apply for the 深圳社保卡

• TOIMPROVE
• get up earlier (around 8:00pm)

• FUN
• glad to see that my flower is blooming
• foguo at dinner is so delicious

2021-03-30

• so sad not to pass the driver exam
• read the articles on girls
• girls hope to be liked and desired(wanted)
• women care more about approval, attention, validation, fitting-in and being liked
• approved and praised is that 'feel right' to women
• 理想的男性通常是 自信， 坚定，随和， 心思细腻，没有攻击性的

2021-03-29

• prepare for the driver test

• read ch3 'I love you but Im Not in love with you'

• fun
• got up around 8:30am
• see a beatutiful girl's back

+ kind of freeddom

• rows are good in the relationship

• TODO
• to be honest about and engage with feelings
• try other food
• add oil

2021-03-29 - 2021-04-05

• the driver test

• connect with Ivy

• programming skills

• language skills

2021-03-18

• TODO
• check react and front-end part
• read the book <the rules of love> and <the rules of life>
• practice language

2021-03-16

• find the common with Ivy
• make sure Ivy is my dreamer one
• read the article <The Nature of Women>
• TOSUMMARY

• programming
• JS
• NOT

• the front-end
• react
• NOT

• practice my cantonese and English
• a bit

• Done
• order the vaccine

2021-03-15

• build your blog
• the front-end
• NOT, check JS doc

• practice your language
• NOT, listen to too much politics news

• Done
• read <The Rules of Life>
• know what you are dedicating your life to

+ love my partner/families

+ build my business/career, enhance my experience

+ beauty

• so you can focus on what's important to you and make positive changes
• so you always check what you're doing and where you're going

+ set a standard to be the very best that's impossible

+ check back to that standard to see how you are doing

+ failing is fine, know what you are doing based on some benchmark

2021-03-08 - 2021-03-14

• Done in this week
• pass the Insurance exam
• make the RA work done
• meetup
• a bit progress on building my blog
• some views from boss in CH

• TOIMPROVE
• love in the meetup

+ 培养爱慕， 克服僵局

+ 创造共同的意义

+ 喜欢一个人就要喜欢这个人的全部，因为她是所有关系的总和

• meetup in CPU

+ people like others to agree with them

+ find common ground on which to build something of mutual value

• habit

+ get up too late (around 11:00pm), and sleep too late (around 12:00am)

+ don't exercise

+ don't sleep enought (11:30-7:30**

• insight
• 过好自己的小日子

+ 先关心生活，先于政治

+ 人活着，有更重要的事： 爱情，亲情，友情

• 中国社会真正的运行规则 是 “法家/道家“

+ 尊君权, 追求权力为中心

• 法家 是让别人的无私来成全自己的大欲

+ 强权 哲学 和道家 犬儒哲学(虚无) 轮流称霸

• 假与恶互为因果

+ 儒家 道德说教而 忽视了制度防范

• 国人内心 也无圣贤

• 投资

+ 网上的投资建议 要谨慎

• career

+ 和人 交互的能力

+ 找相关的老师来研究

• Learn more about yourself

2021-03-09

• why do u wanna to keep the current?
• a bit freedom

+ this is not a problem even you are in a relationship

• not much responsibility

+ you are a man, you should take it

• aru u ready in a relationship?

+ Yes, I wanna have in this year

• do u really like Ivy?

+ she is good (her soul is so beautiful), although she's not so young

+ think about if she is married with another guy? NO

• Don't have energy today
• don't work and don't surf online
• chat?
• sleep

2021-03-08

• so happy to pass the insurance exam today

• dating with Ivy
• she is kind, lovely, and
• don't like girls from the mainland

2021-03-04

• self
• 看不進去書

• TOIMPROVE
• 得找點事情做

• DONE

2021-03-02

• DONE
• finish one part of Insurance

• TOIMPROVE
• 和人打交道的能力

+ 善意的谎言

+ 用说谎让别人自我感觉良好， 同时有效地展现自我

• 了解自己，想要什么样的生活

+ 过好自己的小日子

+ 小而美

• 谨慎选择自己的朋友

+ 不离不弃的人

+ 真心为你的成就而高兴的人

2021-02-26

• Done
• feel happy to spend time with colleges on the holiday

• TOIMPROVE
• spend too much effort/time on the stocks

+ compose index etf

+ don't trade frequently

+ learn how to invest the poential ones

+ don't put too much money on ones from news

2021-02-25

• TODO
• response to RA
• read the insurance doc
• adjust the investment

• self
• so stressful

+ cannot sleep for the investment

+ TODO

• how to make big decisions

2021-02-24

• TODO
• review Insurance docs

+ ch3-ch6

• programming on blog

+ db part

2021-02-23

• TODO
• insurance exam/services

+ try to test once

+ ch1-ch3

• RA job

+ practice the research skills

• programming work

+ fix the initdb error

• volunteer tech work

+ meet on Thursday

• lecture

+ postpone

2020-02-19

• TODO
• programming on Blog

+ write a bit, find boring

+ try to write blog myself

• read the flask and python doc

+ about Module, package, namespace

• reading
• english practice

• TOIMPROVE
• wake up earlier and go to bed earlier
• make a todo list everyday
• do hardest tasks on list first
• stop being pefect

2020-02-18

• DONE
• running
• withdrawl the money from sofi as emergency fund and pay for the debt

+ invest more on index fund, and spend less time on stocks

• dinner with huoguo

+ great to have dinner at the resturant

• read some code

• TOIMPROVE
• find your purpose

+ build my business, especially the tech ones

+ I am a thinker, not a actioner, you should do more

• improve your energy

+ more exercise

+ more good food

• less time on surfing online

+ checking wsj and looking through some titles are ok

• get up a bit earlier around 7:30 - 8:00

2020-02-16

• TODO
• online chatting on vanessa's group

+ NOT

• programming

+ NOT

• reading

+ NOT

• review
• ?

2020-02-15

• speak at CH
• it was great when I challenge something I didnot do before
• know what the others think about something

• SELF
• too political thinking NOW*
• too general and not so practical and details
• good knowledge in education, society, and mind
• foucs on too much on peace-mind and avoid the conflicts & growth

• TOIMPROVE
• focus on tech & product

+ a bit more creative

• TODO
• record your habit and time every day
• review them often
• Don't put politics in the first step

• learning
• the most effective form of learning is active practice, not planning (delay failure)

+ focus on taking action, not being in motion

+ repetition -> the frequency not the time to build a habit

+ only the action of working out will get the result;

+ motion allow to feel like to make progress without running the risk of failure

• apply it into the flow of your life

+ optimize your env to make actions easier

• reset the room

+ design it to automate, eliminate, or simplify as many steps as possible

• review
• read two ch2 on <atomatic habit>
• 豆鼓鱼 is delicious
• always like to lie on the bed - not good

+ ?

2020-02-03

• care the stock 2377 and sell 10K
• put < 50K on the growth stock and don't borrow money for it
• discipline

+ follow your framework, and adjust the details

+ check your framework

• TOIMPROVE
• so nice to chat with team members

2020-02-02

• TODO
• 重新振作起来
• 记录下每天的工作，生活； 以及进步

2020-02-01

• TODO

2020-01-30

• TOIMPROVE your energy

• TODO
• check your next work
• read the ch6&7 for the decision making
• go hiking

2020-01-25

• sell/buy the stocks
• keep 5K not to buy

• practice cantonese/English

• SELF
• peace start once you enjoy your own company

+ not to avoid in trouble/responsiblity for peace

• Men take great risks, seeking external chaos to complement their internal order

+ wormen look for security

• the best way to treat yourself is to stay financially free

• experience
• the importance of the language

+ learn cantonese, and improve language

• self recognization

+ put myself first -> 对自己好一点

+ meditation -> listen to myself

+ responsibility -> freedom and confidence

• communication skills

+ sales and persuation

+ 交流清晰，真诚 -> 反之 模凌两可， 产生不安全感

+ 积极沟通，化解矛盾和分歧 -> 反之逃避矛盾，或想直接翻篇

+ 对自己和他人有明确的边界感 -> 自己的边界被践踏不明确表达，生闷气暗中攻击，侵犯了他人边界也不知或不道歉

• Aware of how the world works

2020-01-18

• TODO
• practice your language

• Think about your object

2020-01-14

• TODO
• know about your object

2020-01-12

• TODO
• think your next step carefully

+ wealth + love

2020-01-06

• 這幾天太頹了，得振作起來
• 好好想想下一步的计划