Daily Review

记录下每天的工作和生活 - 2020

• analyze how I spent my time
• review my priorities
• transfer to-do-list to what-do-list
• TODO

2020-12-20

• TODO

-

• toimprove
• be more active to act, not so obessed in yourself

+ more positive, more work on your business, more outsides

2020-12-18

• self
• be confident with myself
• be good with myself
• myself first
• focus more on business, not on investmenti
• work hard, and not be friends with weakers

• how to keep peaceful
• filter out your friends
• fight for yourself

2020-12-15

• TODO
• read <mastery> and <atomic habit>

+ #not, not peaceful

• practice Cantonese and English

+ done

• prepare for driver test

+ a bit

• toimprove
• how to keep your peace and focus
• how to touch with your relationship like lover & friends

2020-12-14

• feel badly to argue with families
• cannot be peaceful

• TODO
• read

2020-12-12

• write code
• #not
• play badminton
• #not, closed
• practice Japanese
• #not, find boring

2020-12-11

• TODO
• read <Mastery>

+ finish 2 chapters, and finish 1 chapter on <atomic habit>

• finish the summary of psychology course

+ write a draft, #todo try to apply to use it

• join the seminor on japanese, and practice a bit

+ boring, #todo spend more time on Japanese

• practicer a bit English

+ #not

• try to buy MSFT, and sell VHT

+ done, improve the sell/buy contions

• toimprove
• cannot work at home
• Only watch shows on ipad

2020-12-10

• TODO
• CHECK Monk framework, and read <Mastery> by George Leonard

+ finish 2 chapters

• Write summary about the course on psychology

+ write a bit, because of less info, #todo in next day

• Write some code

+ #not, find a bit boring, and no passion

• Practice my english and cantonese

+ done, see a tv cantonese serious

+ done, six friends is becoming more interesting, especially in the dating parts

• try to buy Uniqlo MA-1 suit at shatin

+ done, buy one Uniqlo suit

+ Unidlo is a good brand for me

• SELL voo tonight, and try to buy MSFT on futu

+ Done, sell voo at a resonable price

+ #not buy MSFT, because cannot transfer money at night

• toimprove
• didn't do anyting at home

2020-12-07

• toimprove
• investment is a kind of buying/spending
• a bit low

2020-12-04

• swith into FUTU-HK for the investment
• it's better

• shouldnot get up so lately
• around 9:00

• TODO
• know exactly which kind of #lifestyle do u wanna and which kind of #career/work do u wanna

+ TODO CHECK MORE

• #exercise in the morning
• #sleeps around 23:00

2020-11-27

• sell the stock
• so tired although a bit more money

• black friday, know this firstly
• airpod2 + Asus zenscreen MB16AC

• TODO
• try to write your diary everyday
• to be more organized

2020-11-19

• feel so bad in this week
• a bit tired, and cannot get up early in the morning
• go to bed too late

• 60k in debt
• a bit risky for another stock losses
• it's an experience in debt - worry, concern

• improve
• sleep before 11:00pm and get up earlier
• go running in the morning

2020-11-13

• consider your desire, career, and work

• feel disappointed when Ivy were not there for dinner
• i might like her now

• so sad to fail two times in the same issue
• trust the women too much, you should put yourself firstly
• lose 52800 hkd
• lost 8000 hkd

2020-11-10

• spend too much effort and time on the investment
• the key is that you donot have much money and are not a expert
• cannot keep peaceful when it flustrates so much

• object
• a better me: stronger, heathier, wealthier, smarter

-

2020-10-28

• feel a bit better staying at cityU

-

• need to work
• programming
• reading

• spend too much time on investment
• the key is that you don't have so much money

2020-10-27

• summary on the last week
• donot feel good to stay at home not work

• go out to work
• cityU or cuhk ?

2020-10-20

• TODO
• CHECK SOFI USD account
• DO reading <think and grow rich>
• CHECK my BCT from huobi again

• DONE

...

2020-10-19

• take too much time on the investment
• concern on the money transfer from sofi into my bank

• to improve
• write TODO list for the next day
• TO improve your effecience

2020-10-08

• feel tired yesterday
• searching your goal

• work again
• coding

2020-10-05

• feel tired and boring during these days
• a bit tired at home
• go to cuhk
• go to sketching class, a bit better to meet persons there

• feel good to make money in HK stocks

• write daily reviews

• TOIMPROVE
• put too much effort on stocks & investment

2020-10-02

• hiking on 大美督
• beautiful, and a great trip with friends

2020-10-01

• a bit boring at home

2020-09-28

• it's a crazy week in the month
• lost in stock markets

• read the book <Rich dad Poor Dad>
• it is insightful

2020-09-08

• correct mpf signature

• write homework of Business English course

2020-09-07

• 过去一两周 有些颓废

• correct mpf signature #todo
• 18:55 KH02003 - 素描初阶
• not to do

• read <中国崩而不溃>
• insightful

• todo
• build a team or group for a task
• enhance people skills

2020-08-18

• getup around 7:30pm, and do running at shatin park
• it's a good experience to be in the morning

-

• surf online in the morning

-

• stock investment
• feel bad when the stocks is down
• 价值投资 + 股票知识 + 冷静不要冲动
• 防守股 ->
• 进攻股 -> 港股要小心

• good
• buy a small cactus, try to do well with it
• getup earlier, and do running in the morning

• toimprove
• list the priorit each morinig
• check and review

2020-08-17

• getup around 10pm, breakfast and lunch at MCD, mixian for dinner
• don't wanna get up, and do the exercises actually
• NOT GOOD

• surf online at night

• good
• finish python config on spacemacs

+ great to list the priorities each morning

• my hk stocks begin to rise a bit

+ although I lose less money

+ TODO

• am i a good investor?

• toimprove
• maybe a bit later, but you have to do exercises on moring

+ maybe 8pm?

• list the priorities each morning
• language improvement

+ english

• job searching

2020-08-16

• priorities are the most important part of productivity
• review your priorities

• list my priorities in my life
• health

+ health check at least each two years

+ 作息规律

+ eat well, sleep well

• physical appearance and performance

+ exercise -> running 30m each day

+ gym ?

+ TODO

• freedom (financial, time, location)

+ wanna do what i want, when/where I want and with whoever i want

+ how i spend/save money, and invest

• simple life
• meaningful work

+ meanfingful to me firstly, maybe be good to the around

+ having a vision and making it come to life in the physical world

+ TODO

• family legacy

+ a high-quality woman who I love

• who works with me to build an amazing life for our family

+ creat a strong family and build a business

+ TODO

• high-quality relationship with friends & families

+ the depth of my relatoinships not the breadth

+ 5

• 10 friends i could call at any time and know

+ TODO

• spending time doing thing I enjoy

+ hobbies, interest, passion

• experienceing nature and culture
• chatting - experiencing another human being in his very uniqueness

+ help me to relax and recover

+ stimulate my mind and body in new ways

• toimprove
• list your priorities at the beginning of the day
• running 30m in each morning - 7:30 - 8:00am

+ get up around 7:00am, and go to bed before 11:00pm

• work

+ build a business

• find a problem
• tell a story
• provide a service
• deliver a result
• build a product or productized service
• TODO
• skills

+ programming

+ improve english, and cantonese

+ TODO: driving, swimming

• TODO

2020-08-15

• get up around 10:30
• feel a bit tired

• breakfast and lunch at MCD

• good
• feel great at current home to work
• buy a half cantaloupe

+ great, try a different taste

• work
• use spacemax now

+ work in markdown

+ TODO

• in python

• toimprove
• more effecient
• make use of morning time
• begin to do reading, and programming

2020-08-14

• get up around 9:00
• lunch with steamed bread and meat from baijia supermarket, but it's not so good actually
• spend so much time on spacemacs
• use emacs, not emacsclient now

• do nothing at night, just listen to youtube about politics

• toimprove
• getup earlier, around before 8:00
• make full use of your morning time, to go to exerse ?
• it's good time to work at home on afternoon and night

2020-08-13

• wake up around 9:00, and get up around 10:00

• transfer MPF

• group chatting on "工作和休息"
• emotional, spiritual, relationships, physical
• the meaning of life

• good
• find a better router to get home

• self
• 行尸走肉 的感觉
• 感觉不到自己的存在, 和价值

• toimprove
• get up a bit earlier - 8:30
• spacemace - python setting
• begin to work

2020-08-12

• 从今天起, 告别主要学习阶段或心智模式, 开始成家立业阶段
• 多赚钱, 多养家, 多行动

• 和房东交涉退押金的的事情
• 回复是 “保持追溯的权力”
• 自己没有遵守程序, 港人也骨子里的不信任

-

• toimprove
• 提高效率
• 不要太关注政治新闻, 多关注 经济和 挣钱, 还有就是自己care 的人
• continue to use spacemacs
• begin to work

*

2020-08-08

• get up around 11:30
• lunch at MCD, and spend much time on the sofi.hk
• sell meituan, and buy another stocks

• go to see the house
• it's a good chat with the guy, who is good guy
• a choice to rent, although the condition is not so good, but ok

• sleep at night

• good to get job interviewing news from ouyang

• toimprove
• get up a bit earlier
• it's stupid to close the public areas, hk gov is stupid

• reuse emacs not spaceemacs, because it's common and self-define actually
• enhance your programming skills

2020-08-05

• get up around 12:30
• it's not good
• 赖床, wake up around 8:40

• lunch at mixian, and stay at MCD until dinner time
• hope to move soon

• dinner at red bean
• it's good

• surf online at night
• check yahoo finance news

• toimprove
• get around before 10:00

-

2020-08-04

• get up around 10:30
• lunch at MCD
• it's a bit ok to stay at Mcd, although you cannot think it clearly

• check by hk polices
• feel a bit badly
• I cannot get any respect

• dinner is ok

• toimprove
• money checking costs so much

+ should build a strategy/system for it

• MPF - long term -> 45% on shares
• a bit more foucs on stocks
• use more eamcs

2020-08-03

• getup around 12:00
• should get up around 9:00

• boring at afternoon
• surf online at night

• toimprove
• get up around before 9:00
• don't play mobile after your sleep

-

2020-08-02

• living
• a public reading room
• a clean place

• get up aroud 11:30
• a bit later

• lunch in MCD
• surf online

2020-07-31

• living
• a roomate

+ suited to live with others

+

• a living house feelings

• a good living habit

+ sleep/get up on time

+ keep clean and order

• could work at home

• cooking

• job
• an error to wait for the other's

• self
• find that i cannot do anything

2020-07-16

• creative part

• business part

*

• don't have any experience on investment
• act on an impulse

+ learn the basic knowledge and how to operate

+ think a basic strategy

• always wanna check and update it
• don't have a basic strategy

+ don't believe in the ones in china

• experts do that

+ cannot reflect in real-time

• only work ones in low-risks

• need more actions
• not just in thinkings

2020-06-29

• get up around 11:30, and arrive at cityU around 14:00
• feel a bit tired

• work
• summary 'Hamlet'

• have the dinner at dawei for dumpling
• you should have your own life

• emotions
• a bit disappointed when I get up around that time

-

• improve
• how to have more connections with Ivy

2020-06-28

• emotions
• feel a bit happy and nervous when I gave the books to Tracy

+ talk with her a bit

+ she is kind of freedom style

• feel a bit annoyeds when I find my monitor is not there

+ especially when someone hides it

• self
• I find I wanna attain peace

• skills
• 过于理性分析
• 多观察及聆听别人的言行举止, 特别是别人的感受

+ also find out how your mind works, and how to attain peace*

• be true to your deepest and most profoundly felt emotions

+ those of a spiritual nature

• the calmer because their mind is humble servant

• insights
• ? -> suffering -> wisdom -> morality -> sincerity -> intention -> action
• is the man who's striving to improve himself everyday
• is the man who is doing everything for himself and not the woman?

2020-06-15 - 2020-06-21

• 9:00 以前起床, 12:00以前睡觉
• 这个希望要提高一点

• 大概总结了 “五种爱的语言” 和 “政治秩序的起源”
• 读书有点进步 - 对这自己感兴趣的或問題的部分读书

• 重点转向 英文
• 尤其是 写和听

• TODO
• 想下 怎么提高做事效率
• 怎么和Ivy 提高 connection

2020-06-21

• you should go to the volunteering activity
• a bit tired
• see the room

2020-06-19

• summary about "政治秩序的起源"

2020-06-18

• get up around 9:30, and get to cityU around 11:30
• summary the "the five love language"
• learning from 豹嫂对爱情的评价
• 安全感
• 100% 自由
• 搞笑

• 富豪 - 不需要說服別人, 只提要求就行

• 晚上去上环聚餐
• 阿元菜市场 - 上环- 台湾菜
• 有点无趣

2020-06-16

• get up around 9:30, and breakfast at cu, get to cityU around 11:30
• see some youtube from 鐘嘉欣
• she is good

+ independent, pretty, kind, 会讲话

• 建议

+ 有礼貌, 顾及别人的感受

+ 做事一定要勤力

• 看完了 “五种爱的语言”
• about how to show your love
• 想下 Ivy

• some learnings
• "他入不敷出,追求荣耀, 来往无白丁但并不可以势利眼" from 丘吉尔
• about love

+ 心地好

+ 沟通到

+ 勤力

• 责任感, 能力

• 政治

+ 搞政治的要诀是诱导,推动,驱使大家选择对自己有利的那一种

2020-06-15

• get up at 9:30, and have breakfast at cu, get to CityU around 11:30
• 看了一集 “叹息桥”
• 广东话基本可以听明白
• 看了一集 老友记
• 还得加强英文

*

• todo
• 需要提高执行力和 沟通技巧

2020-06-13

• learning
• 领导力

+ model, coach, cares (以身作则; 帮助和指导别人; 人文关怀)

+ 共情, 人文关怀, 为他人请命, 正是领导力的核心

+ 领导力不是“管事”, 而是“管人”

+ 如果一直沉默,不愿意“管”他人的事,那怎么可能做领导人了?

2020-06-12

• get up around 10:30, and have the breakfast at cuhk
• take course "learning on how to learn"
• good course

• watch cantonese drama "爱回家"

• attend the cantonese meetup
• a bit boring

• todo
• how to improve your efficiency
• getting things done

-

2020-06-11

• 买素描本
• 看了一集老友记
• 做了英文作业

*

• 做事效率好低

2020-06-10

• get up around 10:30
• 捐献旧物
• 很开心
• 服务员不是很热情, 有点失望

• some from "win friends"
• ask questions not command
• use one's notable desire

• 讨论“骄傲”
• feel not so good
• no connectoins

2020-06-08

Miss ivy in the whole afternoon and night

2020-06-04

• get up around 10:30, and clean the room
• drop one before buy one

• clean the tooth

• view the room
• the scene kennedy town is wonderful
• but the room is not good actually

2020-06-03

• get up around 10:30, and have a lunch in McDonald

• see <叹息桥>
• it's a bit interesting

• note some on <富兰克林自传>

• wanna learn the programming course, but cannot

• miss a bit Ivy

2020-06-02

• get up around 10:30

• go to see the room
• it's clean but expensive
• the rent is so flexible to chat

• I find I am nervous to chat with Ivy

2020-06-01

• get up around 9:30, and have the breakfast around 10:30
• have the haircut

• the lunch at cityu is good

• a bit tired actually
• do not learn

• improve some cantonese

2020-05-30 and 2020-05-31

• attend the english introduction course
• attend the language meetup
• should improve your cantonese
• enhance your social skills

+ how to chat

+ too honest

• chat with Dr. Ouyang
• learn his strategy with how to change his talks based on his observation

2020-05-28

• get up around 11:30
• a bit late and cannot catch the time to view the room

• practice some cantonese and english
• it might need some more time

• you should priority your objects and have more reality
• develop your career and make money
• contact with more people

• finish the ch2 in programming languages

2020-05-26

• get up around 13:00
• too late

• practice some cantonese
• watch some tv shows

• listen to one from <software engineering>

• join a talking about <the giving tree>
• maybe share with some friends and relatives
• relationships

• todo
• hope to record everyday and give the summary
• focus more on work and your relationships with Ivy

2020-05-24

• action more
• <atomic habits>
• manage your emotion
• <emotional first aid>
• focus on work

• Ivy
• I like her

2020-05-14

• develop my Musicianship

2020-05-13

• 今天去见了一个startup的公司
• it's not so good actually

2020-05-12

• 精力不够
• 比较欣喜的是 169cm, 增重110.5斤 -> 120

• 今年最重要的是找女朋友
• 工作需要稍微穩定一點
• 住的地方需要好一点

2020-05-05

• try to use spaceemacs
• it's better to use

-

• improve your programming skills
• language skills and social skills

• it's a bit noisy to co-use a desk at cityU
• peaceful is important

2020-05-02

• I find that i need a girlfriend now
• some characters I admire:

+ caring

+ 耐看

+ independent / 有主见

+ 诚实

+ 受过良好的教育

• meetup with international friends
• increase your experiences/knowledge
• be nice
• life experiences

+ enjoy your life

+ meet with young guys

• care others

2020-04-27

• thoughts
• 胆小怕事
• 不要觉得对不起人

+ 这个只对自己的家人和亲密朋友

• use the knowledge actively not just knowing it

*

• read the book <how to win friends and influence people>

• make money

• families

2020-04-24

• get up 11:30
• not good point

• read some python doc
• python paradgram

• read <the lean startup>
• good book

• improve my english from <friends>
• drag some parts

2020-04-23

• 持续的优化自己

• thoughts
• 胆小
• 害怕挑战, 害怕冒险, 害怕失败, 害怕做得不够好

*

2020-04-22

• wake up around 8:30, but get up around 12:00
• bad points

• explore the compiler courses
• wanna improve my programming skills

• learn english - friend

• I find you are a bit more self-love
• love beauty more
• not so good in current society, if you wanna build relationships and make more money

*

2020-04-21

• use the todolist
• a bit more actions

-

• get up around 9:30 , and arrive at cityU around 11:00
• good points

-

• fix the python in emacs
• although a bit more learning
• scheme or common lisp?

• see the blog Patrick Collison
• he is so great

• see the drama <国土安全>

• think my strenghs
• language
• programming
• writing
• art
• spirit
• philosophy
• math

2020-04-20

• get up around 11:30
• breakfirst at cuhk, and get to cityU around 13:00

• config emacs on mac
• reload emacs daemon

launchctl unload /Users/zhaowenlong/Library/LaunchAgents/gnu.emacs.daemon.plist

launchctl load -w /Users/zhaowenlong/Library/LaunchAgents/gnu.emacs.daemon.plist

• start emacs daemon manually

emacs --fg-daemon

• config python in meacs
• failed

• feel depressed
• I'm not so good actually
• possible to do a tech company ...

*

2020-04-19

• get up around 12:30
• sleep around 3:00, and watch a movie <寒站2>
• don‘t do this, and the movie is not good - I mean the value
• action

+ sleep before 12:00, and getup before around 9:30

+ don't listen too much about politics, maybe some more about good ones

• finish the todolist setup
• need time to get used to that

• finish the summary the book <The Great CEO Within>
• should be more social

• english
• finish ch14 in <friends>

2020-04-18

• emacs server-client
• start emacs daemon at loginin based on /Users/zhaowenlong/Library/LaunchAgents
• also could use "emacs --fg-daemon" to start the daemon mode

• emacsclient to run the terminal client

+ todo

• reboot emacs daemon not reboot pc

• international meetup
• should be more open
• improve your english

• you should improve your pronouncation

-

2020-04-17

• item2 + emacs
• melt -> alt
• in item2: command + shift + D to split window horizontally

• emacs server-client
• GUI vs terminal emacs
• TODO
• config emacs
• python runnign env
• [Emacs as a Python IDE](http://www.jesshamrick.com/2012/09/18/emacs-as-a-python-ide/)

2020-04-15

• get up about 11:30pm
• a bit late

• reread and summary ch3-ch18 in <The Great CEO Within>
• so many practical tips

• todo
• update emcas skills
• [cs tools](https://missing.csail.mit.edu/)

2020-04-14

• update the website
• just wanna add a tags key
• it's so fucky to have some unknown reasons

• enhance my thinkings to go to startup

2020-04-13

• lunch with Anson at outback Steakhouse at Tsuen wan
• who is a christ, with a sense of justice
• tips

+ agree with some points

+ should have an object

+ 广东话咬字清楚

2020-04-09

• do the assignments in the business courses
• work for a task from others is good for me

2020-04-08

• get up at 13:30
• it's a bit crazy to live in this env

-

2020-04-06

• doing business

-

2020-04-05

• fix racket debug in vscode
• done

*

2020-04-04

• it's a bit late to get up
• about 11:30, and was at cityU about 13:00

• communicate with hkuspace for my class in the afternoon

• learn Go programming

-

2020-04-02

• get up about 11:30, and arrive at cityU at 14:00
• it's a bit late to sleep yesterday night
• and exiting to know something

• focus on your importances
• girlfriend
• work
• health
• Money

• lessons
• 用力过猛的问题
• focus your mental energy on the task with the most dividends
• know how to spend your energy and brainpower

• think about some of the past lessons you’ve learned
• what could you use a refresh on?
• what are some of the new things you wanna learn

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• 我試著以「能讓我學習最多」的角度去想。

+ 順著這個出發點去想就是和很棒的人一起工作，另外是打造我真的在乎的產品，並且替產品增加使用者。

+ 這些對我而言，才是有意義的

• fake it when you make it
• courage
• tips

+ you shouldnot always tell your feeling or tell truth, people like others to understand themselves

+

2020-04-01

• get up about 13:00
• wake up about 5:00, and surf online a bit

• it's interesting to fix an issue when upgrading to macos

-

2020-03-31

• 感觉身体好累
• 作息规律 - 早上早起, 晚上早睡
• 多锻炼

2020-03-30

• 要多机会增长自己的实力

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• 去 industry 锻炼自己的能力

2020-03-29

• 今天下午同 Sienna 聊天, 感觉还是不错的
• 她的视野还是比较开阔的
• 她是个很努力和独立的女仔, 很有勇气, 虽然学识一般
• points

+ 陌生人社交, 而不是熟人社交

+ 自我

+ 独立

+ 没有陌生感和疏离感 -

+ 旅游 -

2020-03-26

• 这几天老胡思乱想, 以前的工作经历
• 内心戏太多?
• focus on the current work
• 自己并没有做的不对的地方

+ tips

• 如果指出对方的问题

+ 如果自己高一位, 可以讲有自己不对的地方

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2020-03-23

• 晚上胡思乱想, 白天精神不好
• 晚上11:30前准备睡觉, 不要玩电子产品了
• 早上8:30 起床

• 要加强自己的专业能力

2020-03-21

• 今天早上重要早起一点, 大概10点起床

• 今天下午去打羽毛球, 感觉好棒

2020-03-20

• 今天中午起床, 但感觉好累

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• 突然发现 和人打交道好重要
• 语言的重要性

2020-03-19

• 赶紧开始找工作
• 找个好工作, 而且 住到好一点的地方

• 转变心态
• 更沉稳了

• 今天好累

2020-03-18

• 早上应该早起, 晚上应该早睡
• 早上应该从9点以前起床, 晚上 最晚12点以前睡觉

• 多读书

2020-03-12

2020-03-11

• 工作
• 更加了解自己, 了解别人, 了解团队合作

• 面試
• 把重点放在自己的潜力, 向面试官指出你将来能获得的成就, 而不是强调你过往的经验和出色成绩
• 证据, 推荐信

• 《最重要的事只有一件》

2020-03-10

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2020-03-09

• 今天中午才到cityU, 感到很累

2020-03-07

• 今天8点半起床
• 在cu 吃早餐, 在cityU吃中餐

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• 看了两章 昆德拉的 《不能承受的生命之轻》
• 有点迷幻的感觉

• 看了一点老友记
• 有点厌倦

2020-03-06

• 没做成什么事情
• 晚上去 meetup
• 没有太兴奋的感觉
• 英文需要提高

2020-03-05

• 今天9点多起床, 需要适应这种生活
• 早上起床早点要好的多
• 希望以后12点以前睡觉, 8:00起床

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• 今天看了 《爱的艺术》 - 关键是要有爱的能力
• 发现 在需要动脑子的事情上, 需要有些难
• 要珍惜这方面的能力了
• 关键是保持精力的方法

• 要反思下自己的行动力

2020-03-04

• 今天11点半起来, 大概12:30 到cityu

2020-03-03

• 今天12点起床, 状态好差
• 昨天 2点才睡着

• 要不要 跑步下

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2020-03-02

• 今天 10点前起床了

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• 今日买了 显示器
• thinkVision S22e-19 - 950hkd
• Logitech mouse and keyboard -
• HDMI 线多买了, 百花了 300hkd

• 暂时 不去 co working place 了, 在城市大学 也不错

• 下来就要好好工作了
• 早上要早起
• keep fit

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2020-01-16

• tips
• 可以和人 聊得来 是好重要的能力

• 好好想想接下來 自己要做什麼

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• 眼高手低 - "品味和想象超过能力"

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• 智识上的伴侣
• 善良, 独立, 聪明
• 对我好且我看得上
• 价值观 (家庭和金钱方面) 类似

+ 夫妻关系高于其他关系

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• 可塑性 - 彼此妥协解决问题,相互适应
• 有气质, 迷人
• 不搬弄是非且性格好

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• 舒服
• 好的爱情会让你看到和得到全世界

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• 无碍他的事功和学位的情况下, 暂时放肆可以

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• 没有听到反对意见之前绝不贸然行事
• 凡事都有“两面” - 好的一面和坏的一面
• 分析那些令人担心的情况是否可怕; 如果可怕, 找到防范措施再实施原来的计划

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• 我是一个富于感情和想象力的人
• 自己 厌恶 平庸

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• The good life is one inspired by love and guided by knowledge.

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2020-01-13

• 昨天周日 早上去参加英语课, 中午和同学吃饭
• 昨天下午去香港艺术展览约会, 感觉好棒
• 第一次抱女孩
• 下次有机会 搂抱, 亲吻下

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2020-01-09

• 昨天参加一个语言meetup
• 认识到一些新朋友

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2020-01-08

• 事业
• 挣钱

+ 科技

+ 公共服务机构

+ 年轻人

• plan

+ 去一个知名学府深造 比如 harvard, stanford

• skills
• 语言的提高
• 人际关系 的 提高

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• 爱情 - soulmate
• what: 相知相爱 - 志趣相投, 能聊得来 - 相见恨晚

+ 一见钟情 -> 非理性的迷恋

• how: 渴望爱, 有爱的能力

+ 先要爱自己

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• 把爱放在钱的前面

+ 精神上的朋友结婚也无不可

• 家庭
• 独立 - 事业,经济和人格独立

2020-01-07

• 太棒了,终于做成功了以前一直有问题的工作
• build a webiste for myself

• 今天应该早上起床, 而不是中午

• 现在一定要知道自己要什么, 而不是专注于经历了

2020-01-05

• 今天去上課是個欣慰的事情
• 快9:00起床, 有点晚
• 多听别人讲话, 不要走神

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2020-01-04

• 今天早上应该早上起床
• language
• enhance Cantonese, and improve English

2020-01-03

• 昨天晚上睡的太不好了

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• 时间上 稍微自由 而且 有创造性的工作
• 学术 -> professor
• industry -> 公司
• 意味着 更加努力和聪明的工作

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