The Psychology of Leadership

The Psychology of Leadership

*Sébastien Page*

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info

• (yellow, 2025-12-24) Sports psychologists

• (yellow, 2025-12-24) Writing soothes my mind and soul

• (yellow, 2025-12-24) lead a business

• (yellow, 2025-12-24) A leader’s job is to inspire others

• (yellow, 2025-12-24) understand yourself so you can understand others

• (yellow, 2025-12-24) empathy

• (yellow, 2025-12-24) leading by example

• (yellow, 2025-12-24) personal resilience

• (yellow, 2025-12-24) learn how to emphasize relationships

• (yellow, 2025-12-24) meaning to maximize organizational performance

• (yellow, 2025-12-24) about losing

• (yellow, 2025-12-24) how to maximize learning

• (yellow, 2025-12-24) build mental resilience from losses

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info

• (yellow, 2026-01-08) have clarity on their long-term goals

• (yellow, 2026-01-08) help you set goals

• (yellow, 2026-04-11) What truly matters to you and the people

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insights

• (purple, 2026-01-08) their internal desire to control their lives

• (purple, 2026-01-08) learn about the world

• (purple, 2026-01-08) accomplish something that endures.

• (purple, 2026-01-09) The leader’s job is to set goals for their organization and individuals

how

• (blue, 2026-01-09) exit based on stop-loss rules

info

• (yellow, 2026-01-09) Measurability

• (yellow, 2026-01-09) Adopt a mastery mindset

• (yellow, 2026-01-09) make sure you examine your decision-making process

• (yellow, 2026-01-09) SEE model

• (yellow, 2026-01-09) systematize warning signals

other

• (green, 2026-01-09) Here’s my advice

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insights

• (pink, 2025-12-24) aimed at experiencing happiness

• (pink, 2025-12-24) positive emotions (P)

• (pink, 2025-12-24) engagement (E)

• (pink, 2025-12-24) relationships (R)

• (pink, 2025-12-24) meaning (M)

• (pink, 2025-12-24) and accomplishments (A)

• (purple, 2026-01-09) Happiness leads to success

info

• (yellow, 2025-12-24) Am I pursuing the right goals?

• (yellow, 2025-12-24) set better long-term goals

• (yellow, 2025-12-24) Companies

• (yellow, 2025-12-24) should maximize profits for shareholders

• (yellow, 2025-12-24) as long as they also care for employees, clients, and the environment

• (yellow, 2025-12-24) describes five dimensions of happiness

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insights

• (pink, 2026-01-09) How does he maximize engagement or flow in his life

• (pink, 2026-01-09) maximize return on time spent (ROTS).

info

• (yellow, 2026-01-09) applying the concept of flow to corporate goal setting

• (yellow, 2026-01-09) any task can be enjoyable if you pay enough attention

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insights

• (purple, 2026-01-09) ambition is a good thing if managed properly

• (purple, 2026-01-09) corporate culture

• (purple, 2026-01-09) feeling

• (purple, 2026-01-09) applicable feedback

• (purple, 2026-01-09) focus on mutual respect

• (pink, 2026-01-09) the ability to have tough conversations

• (pink, 2026-01-09) sometimes make unpopular decisions

• (pink, 2026-01-09) ever compromising on mutual respect and empathy.

• (pink, 2026-01-09) keep cool by recognizing when you’re having a stress response

• (pink, 2026-01-09) being able to disagree with mutual respect

• (pink, 2026-01-09) Effective collaboration

• (purple, 2026-01-09) culture drives everything

• (purple, 2026-01-09) defines how people work together

• (pink, 2026-01-09) showing fallibility

• (pink, 2026-01-09) belonging, trust, and shared vulnerability

• (purple, 2026-01-09) foster mutual trust

• (pink, 2026-01-09) allow tough conversations to be productive

• (pink, 2026-01-09) When people feel safe and respected

• (purple, 2026-01-09) Who does what?

• (purple, 2026-01-09) nurture positive relationships

• (purple, 2026-01-09) with family, friends, co-workers, and community

how

• (blue, 2026-01-09) Start by putting all the facts on the table

• (blue, 2026-01-09) before you disagree, take a second to point out something you agree on

• (blue, 2026-01-09) rethinking some people’s job definition or reporting lines

• (blue, 2026-01-09) as well as hiring and firing decisions

info

• (yellow, 2026-01-09) more socially connected to family, to friends, to community, are

• (yellow, 2026-01-09) happier, physically healthier, and live longer than

• (yellow, 2026-01-09) prioritize relationships at work and at home.

• (yellow, 2026-01-09) family

• (yellow, 2026-01-09) examples of corporate decisions that illustrate a positive culture

other

• (green, 2026-01-09) We all agree that

• (green, 2026-01-09) but where I see things differently is

• (green, 2026-01-09) pay a genuine compliment to the person you’re about to disagree with

• (green, 2026-01-09) you establish rules of the game within your team

• (green, 2026-01-09) Explain that you’re about to debate ideas, nothing personal

• (green, 2026-01-09) Principle 4: Make Year-End Reviews Useless—Prioritize Relationships

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insights

• (pink, 2026-01-10) want to contribute to something larger than themselves

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insights

• (purple, 2026-01-13) making how you do things better

• (purple, 2026-01-13) Your psyche combines a drive towards mastery and a desire to win

info

• (yellow, 2026-01-13) mastery goals are essential for intrinsic motivation

• (yellow, 2026-01-13) more than ego-driven goals

• (yellow, 2026-01-13) process

• (yellow, 2026-01-13) the mastery-focused player enjoys the game a lot more

other

• (green, 2026-01-13) improve their swing and derives personal satisfaction from it

• (green, 2026-01-13) This player plays for the sake of playing

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insights

• (pink, 2026-01-10) your sense of ethics and aspirations are influenced by who you admire

• (pink, 2026-01-10) how they approach their work

• (pink, 2026-01-10) that makes them role models

• (pink, 2026-01-10) your ability to understand people’s motivations and mindsets

how

• (blue, 2026-01-10) pay employees at competitive levels and differentiate based on performance.

• (blue, 2026-01-10) expand your definition of compensation. Many people are motivated by additional factors such as autonomy, power, prestige, the social aspects of work, or altruism.

info

• (yellow, 2026-01-10) Who do you know that’s successful but isn’t focused on external rewards

• (yellow, 2026-01-10) Who hunkers down and does the hard work every day

• (yellow, 2026-01-10) especially when it comes to meaning and setting big goals

• (yellow, 2026-01-10) They have an accomplishment focus

• (yellow, 2026-01-10) These different money personalities

• (yellow, 2026-01-10) ask them what they like most about their jobs

other

• (green, 2026-01-10) emphasizes the concept of autonomy

• (green, 2026-01-10) What do you truly care about?

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insights

• (pink, 2026-01-08) know yourself better

• (purple, 2026-01-08) My parents are examples of role models

• (purple, 2026-01-08) Core beliefs will often be expressed when stress

• (purple, 2026-01-08) Go ahead and explore your childhood and traumatic or memorable life events

• (purple, 2026-01-08) Managing and upgrading your core beliefs will help you avoid frequent errors

info

• (yellow, 2026-01-08) combine empathy with personal boundaries

• (yellow, 2026-01-08) value hard work as its own reward

• (yellow, 2026-01-08) importance of self-determination

• (yellow, 2026-01-08) meritocracy

• (yellow, 2026-01-08) core beliefs represent what’s important to us, what we’re striving for, what motivates us, and what we’re afraid of

• (yellow, 2026-01-08) They drive the decisions we make

• (yellow, 2026-01-08) helped me identify an unhelpful core belief

• (yellow, 2026-01-08) Excellence

• (yellow, 2026-01-08) Clients First

• (yellow, 2026-01-08) Collaboration

• (yellow, 2026-01-08) Trust and Mutual Respect

• (yellow, 2026-01-08) Make your case on behalf of our clients

• (yellow, 2026-01-08) what core beliefs are

• (yellow, 2026-07-23) helps to understand your roots and define your (and your organization’s) belief systems

other

• (green, 2026-01-08) Upgrade Your Operating System—Identify and Manage Your Core Beliefs

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insights

• (purple, 2026-01-13) setting long-term goals

• (pink, 2026-01-13) Which goals

• (pink, 2026-01-13) Start with your definition of happiness

• (pink, 2026-01-13) hen define your goals

info

• (yellow, 2026-01-13) that mismanaged goals can reduce intrinsic motivation

• (yellow, 2026-01-13) Reframe your goals around ERMA: engagement, relationships, meaning, and accomplishment

• (yellow, 2026-01-13) think about death

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how

• (blue, 2026-01-12) evaluate whether it was critical and time-sensitive

• (blue, 2026-01-12) should keep your options open

• (blue, 2026-01-12) most of us don’t take advantage of the time

• (blue, 2026-01-12) know when you should take decisive action and when you shouldn’t

• (blue, 2026-01-12) insert a cooling-off period

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insights

• (pink, 2026-01-12) Your career is your small enterprise

• (purple, 2026-01-12) as a leader

• (purple, 2026-01-12) an important part of your job is to help others progress in their careers

• (pink, 2026-01-12) separate signal from noise is to take a long-term perspective

• (purple, 2026-01-12) you put today’s problems in the context of your lifetime and eventual death

• (purple, 2026-01-12) end up with pure signal—the things that really matter

• (purple, 2026-01-12) talk to a mentor.

• (purple, 2026-01-12) Find someone you can talk to about your challenges

• (pink, 2026-01-12) get closer to clients

• (pink, 2026-01-12) learning their needs

• (pink, 2026-01-12) making your work relevant to your firm’s commercial success

• (purple, 2026-01-12) Stay close to revenues

• (purple, 2026-01-12) Your place in the value chain becomes clearer

• (purple, 2026-01-12) the closer you are to a revenue stream

• (pink, 2026-01-12) Build your human capital

• (pink, 2026-01-12) Focus on the trend

• (purple, 2026-01-12) you progress towards creating, innovating, leading, selling, or risk-taking

• (pink, 2026-01-12) Don’t get too good at coding

• (pink, 2026-01-12) Adjust your perspective

• (pink, 2026-01-12) Resilience is key

• (pink, 2026-01-12) Stoic philosophy

• (pink, 2026-01-12) Emphasize communication

• (purple, 2026-01-12) quality

• (pink, 2026-01-13) Take care of yourself

• (pink, 2026-01-13) build habits

• (pink, 2026-01-13) underreaction errors

how

• (blue, 2026-01-13) consult with a mentor.

• (blue, 2026-01-13) Find someone with experience and perspective who doesn’t have skin in the game

• (blue, 2026-01-13) Ask them to provide a clinical, unbiased assessment of your challenges

info

• (yellow, 2026-01-10) Separate Signal from Noise—Focus on What Matters

• (yellow, 2026-01-12) apply control theory to career management

• (yellow, 2026-01-12) revenues

• (yellow, 2026-01-12) costs

• (yellow, 2026-01-12) stakeholders

• (yellow, 2026-01-12) market value

• (yellow, 2026-01-12) weat the minor negative setbacks

• (yellow, 2026-01-12) but wouldn’t overreact to noise

• (yellow, 2026-01-12) the upside

• (yellow, 2026-01-12) only if you’re also able to put them in the context of the long-term trend

• (yellow, 2026-01-12) Does today’s setback change anything to that trajectory

• (yellow, 2026-01-12) don’t think you’re too senior, smart, or experienced to work with a mentor. You’re not.

• (yellow, 2026-01-12) Where’s the revenue stream

• (yellow, 2026-01-12) your network of industry contacts

• (yellow, 2026-01-12) your publications in academic journals

• (yellow, 2026-01-12) your reputation on the conference circuit

• (yellow, 2026-01-12) your educational credentials, etc.

• (yellow, 2026-01-12) you align your efforts to be relevant to your job

• (yellow, 2026-01-12) Will this issue affect my ability to achieve my goals over time?

• (yellow, 2026-01-12) not just execution for someone else’s priorities

• (yellow, 2026-01-12) how we react to setbacks

• (yellow, 2026-01-12) collaboration and teamwork are essential

• (yellow, 2026-01-12) communicate clearly

• (yellow, 2026-01-12) do a few things very well and pay attention to details than to take on too many projects and deliver “just okay” work

• (yellow, 2026-01-13) Mind your diet, exercise, and sleep

• (yellow, 2026-01-13) mindfulness/meditation

• (yellow, 2026-01-13) focus on the trend

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insights

• (purple, 2026-01-13) How do you set the right goals for yourself and your organization?

• (purple, 2026-01-13) how to manage stress

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insights

• (purple, 2026-01-07) my job as a leader has been focused on relationships

• (purple, 2026-01-07) All behavior is purposeful

• (purple, 2026-01-07) Empathy is the key

• (pink, 2026-01-07) must listen and understand the perspective of others

• (purple, 2026-01-20) Will they follow?

• (purple, 2026-01-20) motivation

• (purple, 2026-01-20) consoling those who feel down

• (purple, 2026-01-20) resolving conflicts

info

• (yellow, 2026-01-07) personality

• (yellow, 2026-01-07) Understand why people think what they think and do what they do

• (yellow, 2026-01-20) comprise a person’s unique adjustment to life

other

• (green, 2026-01-20) Here are the Big Five traits

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insights

• (pink, 2026-01-07) listening

• (pink, 2026-01-20) Recognize who’s an introvert and who’s an extrovert on your team

how

• (blue, 2026-01-07) apologize for interrupting, summarize the person’s point, and pivot

• (blue, 2026-01-20) Apologies for interrupting

• (blue, 2026-01-20) but we only

• (blue, 2026-01-20) What you’re saying is

• (blue, 2026-01-20) John, what do you think

info

• (yellow, 2026-01-20) I need you to

• (yellow, 2026-01-20) it will require a lot of my energy

• (yellow, 2026-01-20) empowering others.

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insights

• (pink, 2026-01-08) a bit of disagreeableness

• (pink, 2026-01-08) measure who makes the most meaningful contributions to the team

• (purple, 2026-01-08) being comfortable making people uncomfortable

• (purple, 2026-01-08) giving them feedback in a respectful way that lets them know they’re valued

• (purple, 2026-01-08) open and responsive to differing viewpoints.

• (purple, 2026-01-08) listening to understand

• (purple, 2026-01-20) it’s about being open

• (pink, 2026-01-20) someone who’s rarely disagreeable yet can show teeth occasionally

• (purple, 2026-01-20) Use this 10% thoughtfully and deliberately

• (purple, 2026-01-20) about 10% of the time

how

• (blue, 2026-01-20) My boss looks at how my team rates my performance through a formal review process

• (blue, 2026-01-20) balance agreeableness with the courage to make unpopular yet necessary decisions

• (blue, 2026-01-20) must be able to lean towards the opposite side of agreeableness

info

• (yellow, 2026-01-08) pushing people to grow

• (yellow, 2026-01-20) Being agreeable means being mentally flexible, adaptive, and open to another person’s perspective

• (yellow, 2026-01-20) ask for feedback to reduce the stress for both parties

• (yellow, 2026-01-20) they ask how we’ll measure their success

• (yellow, 2026-01-20) Leaders must separate signal from noise to choose when to be disagreeable

• (yellow, 2026-01-20) I struggle with this tradeoff

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insights

• (pink, 2026-01-20) understanding where people fall on this scale

how

• (blue, 2026-01-20) allow them to vent their anxiety—just listen

• (blue, 2026-01-20) need a gentle push once in a while to perform at their best

info

• (yellow, 2026-01-20) creativity is indeed one of the upsides of neuroticism

• (yellow, 2026-01-20) a source of motivation

• (yellow, 2026-01-20) It gives them drive

• (yellow, 2026-01-20) not only because they love their sport or want to win but also because they’re terrified of losing

• (yellow, 2026-01-20) Anxious people

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insights

• (pink, 2026-01-21) To make it interesting

• (pink, 2026-01-21) Openness to experience

• (purple, 2026-01-21) You must focus on a key set of priorities

• (purple, 2026-01-21) A few things done very well are better

• (purple, 2026-01-21) In life, we’re always selling

• (pink, 2026-01-21) because they listen carefully to the other side

• (purple, 2026-01-21) execute a handful of them exceptionally well

how

• (blue, 2026-01-21) Give people with low openness time to process your change agenda

• (blue, 2026-01-21) Rein in those with high openness before they chase too many rabbits

info

• (yellow, 2026-01-21) Take a minute and ask yourself in which situations you display high openness and in which situations you display low openness

• (yellow, 2026-01-21) you must show openness

• (yellow, 2026-01-21) soft skills

• (yellow, 2026-01-21) respectfully disagree

• (yellow, 2026-01-21) boost your creativity and reduce your potential bias

• (yellow, 2026-01-21) focus

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insights

• (pink, 2026-01-21) conscientiousness is the key factor to their success

• (purple, 2026-01-21) Habits

• (pink, 2026-01-21) Success is the product of daily habits

• (pink, 2026-01-21) far more concerned with your current trajectory

• (pink, 2026-01-21) managing the potential downsides

• (pink, 2026-01-21) develop personal and organizational habits that improve conscientiousness

info

• (yellow, 2026-01-21) pairing people with high and low levels of conscientiousness increases team performance

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insights

• (pink, 2026-01-21) more extroverted

• (pink, 2026-01-21) more open to experience

• (pink, 2026-01-21) more conscientious, and less neurotic

• (purple, 2026-01-22) You’ll need to speak more to reach your 1/n target

• (pink, 2026-01-22) Are you making others better?

• (pink, 2026-01-22) Are you making the team better?

• (pink, 2026-01-22) Find new challenges. Bring a bit of fear into your life

• (pink, 2026-01-22) driven by fear of failure

how

• (blue, 2026-01-22) he would link 10% of their year-end bonus to resolving their conflict with each other

• (blue, 2026-01-22) earn to prioritize

• (blue, 2026-01-22) be more skeptical

• (blue, 2026-01-22) keep your thrill-seeking tendencies in check

info

• (yellow, 2026-01-22) Life is too short to work with jerks

• (yellow, 2026-01-22) channel their disagreeableness to productive ends

• (yellow, 2026-01-22) small, daily habits

other

• (green, 2026-01-22) Extraversion

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info

• (yellow, 2026-01-22) start from an endpoint