2026-09-27

Raymond ZHAO is inviting you to a scheduled Zoom meeting.

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Title: #self

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主观感受 > 客观条件

好的character

• wisdom, courage,

self-discipline,justice

跟她在一起我会成为什么样的人？

我会喜欢那个自己吗

• 你的目光看到了什么样的她？
• 人际互补性
• 你们如何互相感染

外表

沟通到

愿意聆听

想同你共同成长的人

这段关系是否让你变成更好的人

• 会活得更好， 更舒服一些

好好沟通

• 愿意听， 愿意分享， 对你保持好奇

开放态度面对对方

• feel safe not judgmental

有空间做man character

• 你们的关系让你有空间这么做

对亲人

• 仪式, nice, decent

对方完整的

• 没有依赖症
• 对方一个人就可以好好， 否则不可以

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Title: #humanskills

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The basic Human principles are the same

• people want to know that they matter
• people want to know that their work matters
• people want to know that they’re valued and valuable
• people want to feel trusted and trusting
• people want to feel seen, heard, and understood

A better listener

• active listening

A student of leadership

• because you have to keep up to date on all the things

Listening

empathy

how to resolve conflict

how to have difficult conversations

How to give and receive feedback

• “can I give you a feedback”

How to implement change

How to do recognition and reward

Real life experiences

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Title: #self

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Being transparent means giving people context

Empathy requires you to feel what somebody else is felling

Kindness requires you to do something about it

True kindness is uncomfortable

Niceness is the performance of kindness,

But it’s not necessarily the action